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How Do One Be Intimate Without Worrying About The Odor Or Someone Seeing The Infected Sight?

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Hampton, VA
April 14
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It's very hard. I just tell and send that person a pic and let a person know it's not contagious.

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I think educating others and being transparent are the important things. I used to be embarrassed to talk about it and now Iā€™m not sure why.

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I lost the love of my life because of HS

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Thank you

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To manage concerns about odor or visibility of affected areas during intimacy when living with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS), consider these steps:

1. **Open Communication**: Start by having an honest conversation with your partner about HS, explaining the condition and how it affects you. This can help set realistic Show Full Answer

To manage concerns about odor or visibility of affected areas during intimacy when living with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS), consider these steps:

1. **Open Communication**: Start by having an honest conversation with your partner about HS, explaining the condition and how it affects you. This can help set realistic expectations and build understanding.

2. **Focus on Comfort**: Engage in sensory experiences that make you feel comfortable and confident. This could include wearing clothing or using bedding that feels good against your skin and doesn't irritate your affected areas.

3. **Highlight Preferred Touch Areas**: Share with your partner which areas of your body you enjoy being touched, steering clear of sensitive or affected spots. This can enhance intimacy without focusing on HS-affected areas.

4. **Manage Symptoms**: Prior to intimacy, consider using recommended topical treatments or gentle cleansing routines to manage odor and discomfort. Always consult with a healthcare professional for personalized advice.

5. **Explore Alternatives**: Intimacy isn't solely about physical touch. Explore other forms of intimacy, such as verbal communication, shared activities, or emotional support, that can strengthen your bond without physical strain.

Remember, intimacy is about connection and comfort. By focusing on what feels good and maintaining open communication, you can navigate concerns about odor or visibility and enjoy fulfilling intimate moments.

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