It's understandable to feel anxious about sharing your experience with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS) with someone new. Here are some tips to help you navigate this conversation:

1. Ease Into the Conversation: You don't have to share everything at once. Start with a brief explanation of HS and gauge his reaction before Show Full Answer

It's understandable to feel anxious about sharing your experience with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS) with someone new. Here are some tips to help you navigate this conversation:

1. Ease Into the Conversation: You don't have to share everything at once. Start with a brief explanation of HS and gauge his reaction before sharing more details.

2. Explain What You Feel: Let him know how HS affects you, especially during flare-ups. This can help him understand your experience better.

3. Focus on Communication: Be open about your needs and feelings. You could say something like, "I need you to listen and not ask questions right now."

4. Be Honest About Your Fears: It's okay to express your fears of rejection. Sharing your vulnerability can strengthen your connection.

5. Remember Your Worth: As one myHSteam member shared, "There is more to us than HS!" Your condition does not define you, and someone who truly cares will accept you as you are.

For more detailed advice, you can refer to the resources on myHSteam:
- [Intimacy and HS: Communicating With Partners](https://www.myHSteam.com/resources/intimacy-and...)
- [Sex and HS: myHSteam Members Share Challenges and Fears](https://www.myHSteam.com/resources/sex-and-hs-m...)

Remember, it's important to trust yourself and your worth in any relationship.

 This AI-generated response comes from myHSteam and other selected sources. It is not a substitute for medical advice. Always ask your doctor about specific health concerns.

Intimacy and HS: Communicating With Partners | myHSteam

Sex and HS: myHSteam Members Share Challenges and Fears | myHSteam