Please don’t be embarrassed. Love yourself hs and all. If the person your having sex with doesn’t want to because you have a condition you can’t control then you don’t want to have sex with them. Someone that shallow probably selfish and won’t be that good in bed anyway. I personally try and keep them covered the best I can. I don’t do that for my husband I do that for myself because out of sight out of mind and I can focus on the task at hand. It’s best with a new partner to explain the hs before going that far, just so it isn’t a surprise. Hope this helps! Good luck! Trent

Be open and honest of what you have. I know it’s not easy. I know my husband and I haven’t in 1/2 a year and it’s been challenging for us. By the grace of God I had surgery in those areas bc we just couldn’t. I know once I heal we will be good to go. It was hard for him and you know you also have to understand a person’s point of view too. He would wear boxers when we were intimate and I was fine with that bc I had drainage. Then it got to the point I literally couldn’t have sex bc of the pain to even walk. When we first met, I told him about it and showed it to him and we had no issues. But then a flare up came about down there and we improvised. Us not having sex has been challenging but at the same time rewarding bc it brought out intimacy and love for one another stronger. Our friendship stronger being married as well. Yes sex is important for connection but we connected even more without it. A love for one another. Wasn’t always easy but we continue to remember our love for one another and God.

I’m with Trent
Get on it!

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